Being true to yourself.
That phrase used to confuse me.
Who isn’t honest with themselves?
How can you hide from yourself?
Don’t answer the questions.
I’ve discovered the answers.
You have morals and you have standards.
They will be tested.
Will you betray your own heart?
Last night a friend I care for so deeply wrote to me and told me to “Be Steady.”
They would have no way of knowing that those two words are isolated quotes from my favorite Spiderman movie.
They are words I actually live by.
Or try to…
-“Spiderman? Are you kooky?”
I am not.
(Okay, I am. But not right now.)
That movie is deep!
It addresses many challenges, struggles, and temptations we face in life, including being true to ourselves.
Peter’s Aunt May says this:
“I believe there’s a hero in all of us,
that keeps us honest,
gives us strength,
makes us noble,
and finally allows us to die with pride,
even though sometimes –> we have to be steady,
and give up the thing we want the most.
Even our dreams.”
That scene in the movie is powerful.
Those words are powerful.
I have dreams.
A lot of them.
I am already a mother, my first and favourite calling.
I’d love to be a lawyer for children,
and advocate for them.
A child psychologist.
A social worker.
A poet laureate.
The author of the next _Color Purple_.
A best friend. Loyal to the end.
A true servant of God, when no one is looking,
And the best life partner a man hoped existed even while he didn’t believe she was out there.
(Yes, I mean wife. But people have different perceptions of the word, and a wife is an equal partner in the longest three-legged race two people ever signed up for. They’re supposed to help each other to the finish line, not bicker and stumble all the way there. I could write pages on that concept, alone.)
But we have to be steady.
What is the ultimate goal before you?
Plot. Your. Course.
Do not allow temptations to divert your attention from the ultimate goal.
Do not allow seductive offers to entice you to betray your own morals.
The happiness of many depends on you.
Let the words of Aunt May, and my beloved friend, and now my own mouth settle into your soul.